Baby
Ci ciu = thank you
Habis
Peek a boo
Bye bye
Daddy
Owww = ouch

Itu some of the words he uses now. Untuk thank you tu, taktau la kalau he really means thank you sebab he use it properly once masa lepas bagi dia apa ntah and dia terus reply ci ciu so I assumed that was thank you. Some other times he did use it cuma suka2 dia bila masa dia nak sebut. Yang peek a boo he only mentioned it once lepas ikut one of his iPad app sebut. It was late at night, the three of us dah duduk dalam gelap atas katil. Bye bye tu dia memang faham la the meaning of it sebab dia selalu cakap bye bye everytime dah go somewhere else away from us atau dia dah dapat makanan dia dari dapur and he’s walking away to the TV room from me, so dia akan cakap bye bye sambil waving at me and jeling. Haha.

Did you know, dia dah boleh sebut daddy? Yes he can. Dia belum panggil hubby as daddy lagi cuma dia dah sebut banyak kali la. He’ll take his time nak refer hubby as daddy sebab he took his own sweet time too untuk panggil me as “mum”. Hubby were so happy masa dapat tau Adrian dah boleh sebut daddy. Mana tak nye, he’s been waiting for this moment for a very long time.

I am so excited knowing my baby boy entah2 tak lama lagi dia akan cakap one complete sentence. Not now but soon he will, I know.

Adrian loves throwing himself on me/daddy/sofa/floor etc. Boleh terberanak dibuatnya kalau tiap2 hari tu kerja this cheeky boy asyik mengcampakkan diri dekat kita. Tak sakit ke Adrian? So I called him Real Steel sebab macam sesuai je haha.

He spilt his juice right next to our bed and of course I went berserk and he immediately pergi amik tissue dekat TV room and came back and wipes the wet area. Bagus betul la Adrian ni!

At 26 months old ni la makanan yang dia dah accept apart from Oreo, ice cream. Juno food senang je nak suruh dia accept. Try savory food, memang payah gile!

Little boss dah mengantuk tapi still nak tengok his movie, Monsters vs Aliens.

He wants to wear this thong tapi dia still couldn’t figure out how to walk with it. Dia still belum tau mengcengkam. Ye la his shoes before ni mana ada style macam ni.

He’s sitting at the ghost chair playing vroom vroom sorang sorang sambil sendiri buat sound effect.

Me and hubby were surprised! Tapi dia sebut sekali tu je la. Tapi memang jelas la dia cakap peekaboo dengan suara lemah lembut dia. So cute!

I was excited. Very!

I don’t know whether hubby is excited too or not because he hardly tells me about it. Never minds. Haha.

Adrian, he is just clueless as he usually is. The moment when the sonographer called us in, Adrian ni jenis couldn’t sit still for a minute. Lagi2 bila dia tengok monitor tunjuk “movie” black and white and takde suara, lagi la dia boring and asyik nak berjalan je.

Everything looks fine according to the sonographer. Bub looks growing accurately according to bub’s age (20w). We had bub’s 3D picture taken as well but bub is too shy to show his/her face so bub cover his/her face with the hand. Awww, adik baby malu2 ye. Cium karang!

After the scan ended, suddenly the sonographer told us “let’s talk about what I see in bub’s brain”. My mind went from happy to scared. From smiling to clueless.

At 20 week scan they picked up bub had a slightly serious marker on his/her brain for a chromosone issue (our 10 week scan had shown a healthy baby). The sonographer recommended amniocentecis done as the results could tell us what is exactly wrong with bub (the abnormality chromosome) with the excess fluid bub has in the brain (not much but about 0.6 more than it should be, 10mm). The other option was to do only the blood test and I could find out whether bub is infected with viral infection or not but could not detected any further than that (like bub is diagnose with downsyndrome etc). The amnio might sounds a better option when you read this but the sonographer told us again there’s 1 in 200 chance that I will have miscarriage or bub might born pre term. Either that or bub will born healthily. Itu terpulang pada takdir, kan.

Since the amount of extra fluid is not as bad as some bub had. We or should I say hubby said to go ahead with the blood test. It’s no point sacrificing bub’s lives. What if we do the amnio and suddenly bub is fine, and later I have a miscarriage or something. Isn’t that gonna bring out the worse situation. Kalau takdir adik baby sihat, sihat la dia. Kalau takdir adik baby diagnose with DS etc, kami terima seadanya. Bub deserve to live aite! Adik baby dah 20w old, too big to sacrifice it for nothing. On another good news, there’s a chance the excess fluid is nothing too and bub is 100% healthy.

I am down for the day. Maybe because I need some time to digest this things.

For the time being, bub is doing great in my tummy. Very active. We love you adik baby!

P/s: we already know the gender of adik baby but still keeping it to ourselves for the time being (well apart from my family yang dah tau haha).

P/s/s: we still have to think it through. Have another appointment with the midwife on the 14th.

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I was in the kitchen when he came to me with his doodle. So we both sat in front of the fridge while I’m watching him draw. Sambil dia draw dia bercakap. He kept talking on and on and on about what he drew. It’s amazing & funny & cute seeing him talks nonstop telling me what it is. All I could understand, he said “baby”. Only then I knew instantly he’s trying to tell me it’s the four of us. Isn’t he a wonder! Isn’t he adorable! I think I wanna cry.

Apart from that, here’s another collection of mine. Collection ke? It’s the all black Bugaboo Bee+ with Missoni sun canopy.

Selamat hari lahir Bapak. Semoga Bapak dipanjangkan umur, diberi kesihatan yang baik2 selalu & dilindungi tuhan dari perbuatan jahat orang yang kita tak nampak.

Love,
Miza, Arif, Adrian & Adik baby

A wish from the heart of my loving husband.

Happy 3rd anniversary Sayang! And many more to come. Dah 3 tahun, and from 2, kita ada Adrian now another one in the oven! Alhamdulillah.

P/s: janji kita kahwin sebab ikhlas, kan?

Bila some people tau it’s 40° here ramai yang cakap it must be hard for me as a pregnant mummy. Ye la, pregnant ladies blood flow lagi banyak than normal people, lagi banyak darah, lagi panas lah badan tu. Entahlah, bagi aku, I feel the same way what others feel. Ke darah aku tak double the quantity? Haha.

My weight on the other hand been going between 55-56kg. Berat tak kemana macam before pregnant. Yes korang tengok nombor tu dah Kira banyak, kan. Tapi aku bukan pendek mana so I’m at the right weight gitu! Haha (memandai je).

My big baby makin hari makin manja! Pantang mummy baring, he’ll do what he wanna do with me especially roll/sit/stand/lay on me! Tak dapat on tummy, on my side pun jadi lah!